The Twink Death of it all

Only days after its publication, the first review of AFTERLIFE OF A KEPT BOY is out. More than feeling seen I’m feeling clocked! Writing in the Whitney Review of New Writing Issue 005, Journey Streams gets into the twink death narrative of it all. Full transcript of the review: When a twink dies, what else… Continue reading The Twink Death of it all

Memoir pub date!

Bruce Benderson suggested inverting the original title to AFTERLIFE OF A KEPT BOY and the amazing folks at C&R Press agreed. He also suggested the 2-part structure, the (solar) kept boy period and the (lunar) afterlife. After some delays we made it to the pub date! The Press is honestly courageous publishing a queer, sex-work… Continue reading Memoir pub date!

Saints + Sinners ’25

This year’s queer lit fest in New Orleans took some unexpected turns. I participated in a lively panel discussion about genre (fiction vs. nonfiction) which was deftly moderated by Doc McLemore and featured my press-mate Brian Alessandro, Bobby Fieseler (whose new book American Scare investigates Florida Red-Scare era politics and draws a through-line to today’s),… Continue reading Saints + Sinners ’25

Reading from AoaKB at Pub Tri

For OUTspoken, the Publishing Triangle‘s monthly reading series at the BGSQD, I field-tested an excerpt from Chapter 1 of AFTERLIFE OF A KEPT BOY (Available for pre-order from C&R Press, the new release date is May 16th, 2025) Thanks for Rob Byrnes for landing all those blurbs! Link to Youtube recording. I go on at… Continue reading Reading from AoaKB at Pub Tri

Memoir Land Questionnaire

On her popular substack, Sari Botton has honed this questionnaire beautifully, engaging authors on both craft and content. The below answer points to two authors in the sex work lane who have guided the writing of AFTERLIFE OF A KEPT BOY: I was once given an assignment to write a chapter for an academic textbook… Continue reading Memoir Land Questionnaire

“Analog Codes for Digital Cruising” in Fruitslice

The digital age represents a radical shift in communication, and I wonder sometimes if I’m only imaging traces of the analog codes in fugitive glimpses through the blur. Are they reconstituting? When I hit Sniffies, past and present collapse. My moves may be pixelated but they’re not random, ok Gurrrl? I seek to carry over… Continue reading “Analog Codes for Digital Cruising” in Fruitslice

Flying car gay bars: Queer Utopia episode

The episode of Sniffies Cruising Confessions Queer Utopia features all of the season’s interviewees reflecting on the notion of Queer Utopia as outlined by late writer José Esteban Muñoz (Cruising Utopia, 2009, NYU Press). One heavily circulated quote from Muñoz describes queerness as felt as “the warm illumination of a horizon imbued with potentiality.” Another… Continue reading Flying car gay bars: Queer Utopia episode

Appearing on Sniffies Podcast

I appear on episode 8 of Sniffies‘ podcast “Cruising Confessions.” Sniffies is a GPS-enabled gay hookup website. Launched in 2018, the website was developed by Seattle-based architect Blake Gallagher, who was driven by his interest in analog cruising patterns in urban spaces. The podcast episode is entitled “Talk Dirty to Me” and with co-hosts Chris… Continue reading Appearing on Sniffies Podcast

Appearance on WROTE Podcast

On this long-running podcast showcasing queer authors, I discuss with co-hosts Baz Collins and Vance Bastion the stories collected in BONDS & BOUNDARIES, and in particular the queer Gen-X condition. Listen here: http://tun.in/tBbXTX (scroll down to Season 9, episode 17) or Watch on YouTube.